Playing Tourist
The Sakura (Cherry Blossoms) were beginning to bloom as I finally grasped the reality of being back in Japan. Their beautiful petals were like welcoming confetti upon my return.
I was struck by the hustle and bustle of Tokyo. The streets were crowded with people, and the energy of the city was palpable. I found myself walking through crowded train stations and bustling shopping districts, taking in the sights and sounds of both ancient and modern.
The fast-paced Tokyo life was intimidating at first, but I eventually came to enjoy the excitement and energy around me.
Yasukuni Shrine, Cherry Tree in full Blossom, taken by Casey Bales
I found it to be a deeply personal and emotional experience, as a 36 year old adult who has lived in Tokyo before, to return after an extended period away. I had a mix of excitement and nervousness as I reflected on so many memories held within. One of the defining features of Tokyo is its extensive and efficient public transportation system. I found myself marveling at the crowded train stations, with trains coming and going at regular intervals. I was struck by the efficiency and organization of the system, and enjoyed the convenience of being able to easily get around the city. At the same time, I had to readjust to the strict rules and etiquette of living in Japan, such as not to cause meiwaku or trouble for others who share common space.
I knew I would become busy in time, so I wanted to first take a moment to play tourist and revisit some of the pleasures Japan offers to the senses. Traveling to Kamakura with my wife and friend, we visited the usual sights, chowed down on some of the local cuisine, and soaked up the seaside ambiance.
I was delighted to indulge in the nostalgic taste of Shirasu Don, a dish from my childhood.
Despite having lived in Japan for over a decade, I found myself noticing new cultural nuances upon returning to Tokyo. I was enamored by the politeness and respect that is valued in Japanese society, and by the importance of maintaining group harmony. I found myself adapting easily to new customs and social norms, such as the use of slippers in homes and wearing masks outside even though no one was around. I must admit, I had to re-learn some of the cultural norms that I had previously internalized, and I found myself making cultural mistakes as I adjusted to Japanese life — such as wearing my backpack on a crowded train instead of being conscience of the space behind me and putting it between my legs.
Iconic Mt. Fuji at dusk from Chigasaki Beach, Kanagawa Pref.
Overall, returning to Tokyo as an adult is continuing to be a rich and rewarding experience. I expect to encounter a range of challenges and adjustments as I reintegrate into Japanese life and society. Getting our home put together, searching for work, and becoming part of a new community will be my goals moving forward. With time and patience, I ‘m sure I will begin to feel at home in Tokyo once again, enjoying the city's cultural wonders and finding a sense of belonging.
